When you are shopping at a store do you notice that everyone buys something different than everyone else? There are many different types of groups of people in the world: mean, generous, popular. Some feel like they fit in and some just don’t. Stereotypes affect how people act around others and everyone should express how they are different in a certain way.
When you are with your friends, do ever feel like you have to act like someone else or say something you normally wouldn’t say? You shouldn’t have to if they are your real friends. Sometimes, I feel that I have to dress differently than I normally would just to fit in. In the movie, Camp Rock, a girl wants to make friends with the “cool” girls so she wears fashionable clothes that don’t fit her personality. This shows how she is trying to impress them. In the book, The Outsiders, the two groups, greasers and socs, don’t try to be like the other group. The greasers’ opinion of the socs is wealthy, cold hearted, and always looking for a fight. Johnny said, “It seems like there’s gotta be someplace without greasers or Socs, with just people. Plain ordinary people.” This shows that you were either a greaser or a soc. Nothing else. People need to express their own self and show the world who they really are.
Imagine a world where everyone is the same. Everyone has the same clothes, has the same hair cut, and has the same personality. The world would be boring, simple, and people would probably have no fun. You wouldn’t be able to express who you are as an individual and you would get treated the same way as everyone else. Therefore, people should respect others differences. I was at school one day a while back and a boy got laughed at because of his weight. This probably made him feel like he was less than everyone else and that he had no friends to stick up for him. In the book, The Outsiders, Ponyboy pretends to be cool with the rest of the greasers but he is unique in his own way. He smoked and tried to speak in a slang way. Josh Groban, a singer, says, “Don’t try to be like me. Try to be like yourself. Try to be very good at being like yourself.” This shows that he feels strongly about expressing yourself. Being yourself is one of the most important things in the world. Don’t change who you are.
Next time you are shopping with a friend, don’t buy what they want you to buy. Buy what best fits you and your own personality. Stereotypes are affecting people all over the world by making people be someone their not so you should always be yourself. Remember this and you will be better off in life.
